As humans, our sexual curiosity is endless. We fantasize about taboo scenarios such as same-gender sex, anal play, BDSM and much more.
It is completely natural to think about and even act on these feelings and emotions – so there is no need to feel shy or embarrassed because of your sexuality!
One of the most taboo, but most thought of scenarios, is definitely anal sex – and that counts for both men and women all around the world.
The thing with anal sex is that people aren’t sure how to approach it, where to start or how to do it the right way. It can even be a bit intimidating to some people and we want to help you alleviate that stress and show you how to enjoy it to the fullest.
Most people will start off with anal sex toys before they will go for the real deal and it is probably also the best route to go about it.
It allows you to get to know your own body, its limits and to distinguish between what feels good and what doesn’t. This also makes anal sex a lot better when you can communicate the do’s and don’ts to your partner.
We have put together our very own Beginners Guide to Anal Sex Toys to help YOU get more comfortable with your body and its sexual cravings.
OhGee’s Beginners Guide to Anal Sex Toys:
At first glance, these already look very intriguing and stimulating! They consist out of both tiny and big spheres connected to each other and is made of flexible material.
These are great for beginners whether you are doing it solo or with your partner. The first few beads start off small and increase in size towards the end – allowing you to play with different sizes and lengths.
This is a great way to get to know what you enjoy and how much you actually enjoy it.
Besides, these will still come in handy long after you are no longer a beginner!
This is most likely the first item to come to mind when anal sex toys are mentioned.
These have been an all-time favourite of anal enthusiasts for quite some time now. With their simple yet elegant design, they aim to please and stimulate in the most simple yet enjoyable form.
If you are looking to warm up before the actual event, this is a great option for you as it is used to stretch and stimulate in one go.
We would suggest start off with the smallest size and then over time, work your way up to the more challenging ones.
It might sound a bit odd because you’re probably thinking “why can’t I use a normal dildo?”.
Well, to put it as simple as it can get, it might just be a bit too advanced for those who are only just starting this journey.
Anal dildos are generally shaped and designed in a way to specifically stimulate the prostate gland instead of the g-spot which makes it more convenient for men too.
The shape of the head is also slightly different to make the insertion part a lot smoother.
While you’re at it, get one that visually suits your personality! Sex toys are a lot better when they’re in your favourite colour.
They also come in different materials such as glass and silicone.
Lube it up
Like they say, a little bit can go a long way!
Using lube, in general, makes sex and masturbation that much more fun and enjoyable, but when it comes to anal (sex or play) it can make a world’s difference.
There are actually lubes out there that were invented specifically for anal lovers, beginners, enthusiasts and experts.
Anal lubes range from ones that help with relaxation all the way to ones that can heat up the area and come in both water- and silicone-base.
Add these to your toys and it might make the experience even better than it already is.
One thing you’re probably most worried about is whether there is going to be a mess or not, right?
That is a completely normal thought process to have and that is why this product was created in the first place.
Anal douches will help you clear your mind of these thoughts as they are there to clean up the rectum beforehand – whether for a toy or your partner. It also helps with hydrating which will help with the process.
Keep it clean and hygienic every time!
Just remember that anal play won’t be easy the first time you try it. The rectum is packed with a lot of nerve-endings and it is not really used to the feeling of something entering it. On the other hand, due to the high amount of nerves, it can result in extremely pleasurable sex and mind-blowing orgasms.
That is why you want to start off slow, be completely comfortable and relaxed and get to know your body step by step.
As with any other sex-related experiences, there are certain precautions to take and doing research is one of the best ways to prepare!
We wish you well on this journey and we hope our Beginners Guide to Anal Sex Toys has shined some light on the subject and all the questions you had in your head.
Browse, choose your item, buy it and let the fun begin!