Masturbation is one of those topics that you are either totally comfortable talking about or something you pretty much keep to yourself.
Some people masturbate daily, some have never even considered it and some have tried it, however, due to not knowing exactly what to do, have decided that it is not for them.
Either way, masturbation is great for both your physical and mental health, according to recent studies.
It also makes you feel like the queen of sass and sexiness at your party for one!
So, without further ado, let’s look at some of our top masturbation tips for women to help you get the juices flowing in all the right ways and all the right places.
A How-To Guide on Masturbation for Women
Make sure you have free time
When you are planning on pleasing yourself, you don’t want to be rushed, do you? Of course not!
There is nothing worse than having to put a time cap on your solo play time – especially when it comes to the scenario that someone might unexpectedly pop in while you’re going at it.
Be sure to have all the free time in the world as well as a spot where you feel totally comfortable and free.
Stressing about the situation will keep your body from fully enjoying every sensual touch.
Lube it up – there is no reason not to
Now, there is absolutely nothing wrong with using only your body’s natural lubrication, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with adding to it, either.
The wetter the better, right ladies?
Put some lube on those fingers and your honeypot will be running over with sweet produce.
Not only your vagina matters
A lot of ladies think that masturbation is boring because all you do is play with your clitoris and vagina until the flower blossoms, but this is NOT the case.
Women’s bodies have a lot of sensitive little spots and I’m sure you all know about them – such as your inner thighs, your nipples or even your butt!
Move your hands around, explore your own body and get creative – you will only have yourself to thank afterwards.
Tease yourself before you please yourself
Ahem, what are you doing? Stop touching your clitoris straight off the bat! (Unless that’s what works for you).
Start off slowly by dragging your fingers across your thighs, maybe over your stomach and your sides – this is a great way to get the blood flowing down there.
Build up some cravings – we all know the dessert is much better once your body can no longer take the anticipation.
Get the visuals
This does not only refer to going to Pornhub to get your fix! If you have any past memories about intimate times, feel free to think back and picture it in your mind.
Close your eyes, use your imagination and let it fuel your moment of indulgence even more – sometimes it’s that small little spark that gets the flame burning properly.
Maybe even read a sex scene from Fifty Shades of Grey.
One is good, but more is better
If you have just exploded into a nuclear orgasm and you still feel like you could go again, well, then go for it!
Why not make the most out of the moment and get rid of every bit of sexual frustration.
You will always know your body better than anyone else and that is your advantage, so have those multiple orgasms you have always dreamed of – no one is there to stop you, right?
Make it even wetter than already mentioned
When you’re dirty, you take a shower or a bath, right? Well, you can do the same when you feel dirty in a sexual way.
Take your dirty thoughts to the bathroom, because hot water feels good on your body at any given time – maybe even get the showerhead involved if you are looking to get friskier than Fritz The Cat.
Watch yourself do it
Yes, you read that right! Place your mirror either on the side of the bed of the foot of the bed – or even go full out and put it above you on the ceiling!
Seeing yourself won’t only make you feel sexy, but also boost your hormones to the next level.
Watching yourself cum can be just as pleasing as the orgasm itself – going all out during solo play is what it’s all about because at the end of the day, no one can do it better than you 😉
More Masturbation Tips
Try inserting a finger or a dildo into your vagina. Use lube. Glide it in and out. Try to find your g-spot or just enjoy the sensation of something inside you.
Experiment with a vibrator
Press it above, below or on one side of your clitoris to see where it feels best. As you get more aroused, and ready to release, vibrate directly on your clit, then take it away. As you start to recover, add the vibration back and see if you can come again.
Okay, ladies! I’m sure some of you might have even worked up an appetite just by reading these masturbation tips for women, which means you’re probably not occupied or surrounded by people.
It is time to get down (on yourself) and enjoy your solo play like never before – and if you’re about to attempt it for the first time, we sure do hope this guide has been helpful on your journey towards self-inflicted ecstasy.